Special Events

CrucibleCon offers a wide variety of special events for those of just about any taste. Below are some of the offerings we will have for this year’s event. More information and events coming soon.

In Conversation

Please join us in welcoming our Special Guests as they share their history and stories of their amazing journeys. These interviewees all hold a unique role in our kink world and we are so pleased they agreed to join us at CrucibleCon. All are accomplished educators and are important to the history of our scene. For those who are authors we have books for sale and book signing will follow each In Conversation. Please see their biographies in the Special Guests portion of the program.

Barbara Carrellas Book Launch and Reception hosted by CrucibleCon and Camp Crucible

Join us as we celebrate the fabulous Barbara Carrellas and the publication of her latest work The Book of Ecstasy, a companion to her seminal work Urban Tantra. We’ll have a brief interview with Barbara, Q&A session, and a book signing. 

Broadway Sing-a-long hosted by Brittany, Evelyn, and Alixzander

As the good book says “The venn-diagram of Theater People and Kinksters is just a circle”. Join us for CrucibleCon’s first ever Broadway Sing-a-long! Warm those voices up, because we will be so loud and raucous, they’ll hear us in East Secaucus.

Cigar Social with Alex McGeorge and B_Profane

Cigars have a deep connection with leather, kink and BDSM. Come enjoy a stogie and chat with fellow cigar enjoyers about topics such as: cigar play, cigar service, cigar advice, cigar accouterments, or whatever else your heart desires. The event is a separate ticket purchase and attendees will be able to choose from a selection of provided cigars and alcohol to enhance their experience.

Kidz Bedtime Story Hour hosted by ElleJay

Remember the joy of being read a bedtime story? Drop in anytime and join us for an hour of fun storybook reading! Relax in a chair, or if you’re feeling cozy, bring a blanket, pillow, or favorite stuffie and settle in on the floor blanket. We’ll enjoy a variety of storybooks—from nostalgic classics to laugh-out-loud favorites—with volunteer readers throughout the hour. You’re also welcome to bring a favorite book to read or share. And don’t worry…no one has to go to bed when storytime is over!

MATRIARXY Presents: Bingo For Baddies hosted by Domina Noire LeGrande

MATRIARXY (pronounced like Matriarchy) celebrates Alpha Femmes and those who admire us. The “X” intentionally welcomes and affirms Femme identities beyond traditional binary definitions of gender, creating a space where Alpha Femmes (women and others on the F-side of the gender spectrum) are recognized as the rightful leaders and curators of the space. Whether you’re an experienced Alpha Femme, an aspiring newcomer, or an admirer, you’re invited to join us for laughter, connection, and playful competition. Enjoy multiple rounds of bingo with prizes, meet fellow community members, and experience the magic of MATRIARXY.

The Perfectly Matched Game hosted by Alixzander

Get ready to find out just how well you really know your partner in crime! In this hilarious battle of they-said-they-said, pairs of partners and best friends are split up and grilled with questions about each other — from their quirkiest habits to their deepest secrets — and then reunited to see if their answers match. Every matching answer scores points, but every mismatch scores something even better: laughs, gasps, and the kind of “you said WHAT?” moments no one will forget. Will your duo prove you’re perfectly matched, or discover you’ve still got a thing or two to learn about your other half?

Smut Slam: Erotica Reading hosted by Cecilia Tan

Erotica maven Cecilia Tan invites you to bring your sexiest, smuttiest stories (or poems!) to read aloud. True or fictional! Maximum of 5 minutes in length or 1000 words! Do you have that notebook with your filthy fantasies? Are the scenes marked in your favorite books? Bring your favorite piece of smut (whether it’s your writing or someone else’s) and we’ll read our favorite scenes. This Salon will leave you scandalized, blushing, and tingling all over.

The "Telepaths Don't Need Safewords" Gameshow hosted by Cecilia Tan

Can you read your sub or dom’s mind sometimes? Or do you just wish you could? Come enjoy our kinky gameshow and test your abilities and your knowledge! Part Password, part Newlywed Game, part Who’s Line is It Anyway, THE TELEPATHS DON’T NEED SAFEWORDS GAME SHOW will give you (yes YOU!) the chance to win prizes and the love and admiration of your peers. Even the Audience can win! Come prepared to show your knowledge of kinky geekery as well as your partner’s mind. Singles, couples, and poly- or multi-person relationships who wish to be contestants should arrive 10 minutes early to sign up and get an explanation of the (simple) rules.